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Step 7 is similar to step 3. It is more specific, however, because now I have completed
my personal inventory and so I have a better idea of the roots of my addictive behaviors.
I do my best to not play games about these defects of character.
In this step I surrender to the "surgery of God" and ask God to remove these defects
of character. I do this with a sincere and humble heart, knowing that only in such a way can
I find my path to true sanity and peace.
This may also mean action on my part in getting rid of sources that lead me
to addictive behaviors. If it is my pride that makes me believe that I can still
live with these sources of temptation, then the sources need to go along with
my pride. I rid my life of those things, people or situations that are causing
me to fall or stumble as far as I can do so in a responsible manner.
- From 12Step.org
The Seventh Step is where we make the change in our attitude which permits us, with
humility as our guide, to move out from ourselves toward others and toward God. The
whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility. It is really saying to us that we ought
to be willing to try humility in seeking the removal of our shortcomings just as we did
when we admitted that we were powerless over alcohol, and came to believe that a Power
greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. If that degree of humility could
enable us to find the grace by which such a deadly obsession could be banished, then
there must be hope of the same result respecting any other problem we could possibly
have.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 76
Taking Step Seven was for many of us the greatest act of authentic humility
we have ever been asked to commit: to transfer control of our recovery to God...
...according to the Twelve and Twelve, humility is a clear recognition of
who we are followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be. That is, humility
is seeing ourselves as we actually are, good and bad, strong and weak, and acting
authentically on those truths. This is not a naieve attitude suggesting we have in some
way already "arrived." It is a sincere attempt to state the positive truth that when we
face the truth of our shortcomings and the fact that we are powerless to change and begin to
let God take our defects away, we have entered the pathway of humility. For the reality is,
only God can take away our Sin, our deeply entrenched addictions, and our lifelong character
defects. It is on this pathway, where we humbly ask God to remove all these defects of
character, that the tools of recovery bring the healing, happiness, adn security we have
dreamed of. But once more it is only powerlessness and pain that can force us to take the
seventh Step into humility.
- A Hunger for Healing, p. 116-117
Humility is as much a part of staying clean as food and water are to staying alive. As our addiction progressed,
we devoted our energy toward satisfying our material desires. All other needs were beyond our reach. We
always wanted gratification of our basic desires.
...The word humble applies because we approach this Power greater than ourselves to ask for the freedom to live
without the limitations of our past ways. Many of us are willing to do it without reservations, on pure blind faith,
because we are sick of what we have been doing and how we are feeling. Whatever works, we go all the way.
- Narcotics Anonymous Basic Text, Chapter 4/Step 7
We need humility for three reasons:
- So that we can recognize the severity of our character defects. One aspect of our addictions is that
we tend to deny and minimize the pain they inflict. Therefore as we try to assess our character defects,
we may, unless we take a very humble approach, underestimate their severity.
- So that we can acknowledge the limits of human power in addressing these character defects.
We cannot do it on our own. We cannot do it by sheer willpower. We cannot do it by our own intellect and
reasoning.
- So that we can appreciate the enormity of God's power to transform lives.
... Although Step 7 is the shortest step in terms of wording and is perhaps the least discussed in recovery groups,
it is probably the most potent of the twelve. It embodies the miracle of transformation as we turn over to God
our broken, defective personalities in order that He might mold them into healthy, effective instruments of
His will.
- Serenity, A Companion for Twelve Step Recovery, p. 54-55
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